Relationships might not be totally fun all the time, but that’s not how you feel when you first start dating someone. You meet a cute, sweet, smart, and funny guy and you just can’t believe that you get to be with him. Hopefully you feel that way the entire time that you’re together, but unfortunately, life doesn’t always work that way. Sometimes you fall out of love with someone or start to feel like you’re merely roommates… or something truly horrible happens that breaks your heart into a whole bunch of pieces. Either way, heartbreak is never a fun experience.
Sometimes you don’t know what you would really consider to be a relationship-ending situation until you’re in the middle of it, and it’s too late. As with most things in life, there’s only so much that you can plan. But your zodiac sign can actually help you figure this out and you can know ahead of time what your ultimate dealbreaker would be. And that’s good news since you want to be as prepared as possible when dealing with matters of the heart, right? Right. Of course. Read on to find out the most detrimental thing that can happen to you in a relationship according to your zodiac sign.
If you’re a water sign, then there’s one major thing about you: you’re emotional. And you’re cool with it. In fact, it’s one of the coolest, most interesting things about you. Expressing your emotions is what you do, basically. If you found out that your boyfriend is so emotionally immature that he can’t talk about how he feels, it would be devastating for you.
You might not realize this for a while, but once things started getting serious, you would find out pretty quickly whether your boyfriend was up to your level emotionally or not. You would hate dating someone who could barely tell you how he felt or talk about the future. That just wouldn’t work for you and would make you wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place.
If you’re a Pisces sign, you’re very emotional and sensitive, and you don’t take a relationship lightly. If you fall for someone, you fall hard, and this person means a lot to you. He would become your entire world, even if your best friends told you to not fall too hard and fast this time.
If you learned that your boyfriend didn’t actually love you, it would be totally devastating to you. You couldn’t think of something that would feel worse than this. It’s very difficult for you to move on when you learn that someone doesn’t feel the same way about you. Whether he was lying when he said that he cared about you that much or he let it slip that he wasn’t sure that he could say that he loved you, you find it really tough to deal with.
If you’re a Scorpio sign, then that means that you’re a very jealous person. And even if you know that you trust your boyfriend and that he would never do anything, you still can’t help it. It’s honestly just the way that you are when it comes to dating and relationships.
If your boyfriend was flirting all the time, though, you would be totally within your girlfriend rights to be upset and annoyed. And you would definitely consider this to be the worst thing that someone could do to you. You wouldn’t be able to take how jealous you felt all the time and would wonder why someone wouldn’t understand that when they have a serious girlfriend, they can’t flirt 24/7. It would be truly baffling and truly terrible.
You’re a very insecure person if you’re a Cancer zodiac sign, so the worst thing that could happen to you in a relationship? That would be if your boyfriend was emotionally abusive.
Of course, this is a really horrible thing to experience, and it would be awful for anyone. No one deserves it, no matter who they are or what their zodiac sign is. For you, though, it would be really bad because you would feel even worse about yourself. Every harsh word and insult from your so-called boyfriend would chip away at your self-esteem even more until, finally, you were a total mess. It definitely sounds terrible and would be no way to sustain a relationship. You would absolutely have to leave and find someone who treats you the way that you deserve.
Fire signs are passionate signs, which of course makes total and complete sense. If you’re one of these signs, then your intimate life is super important to you, and when you have a boyfriend, you really need that to be as good as possible.
If something changes and suddenly you two have no chemistry or are just never together like that, it would be devastating to you. And it just wouldn’t be something that you could get over. While other people might say that stuff happens and that every couple goes through slow periods, you wouldn’t stand for it. You would wonder if you and your boyfriend were ever meant to be and you would probably find someone else who you had more fire with.
Sagittarius signs are known for loving their freedom. You’re not really the relationship or commitment type since you love to travel so much and you’re not much of a planner. But if you did find yourself interested in pursuing a relationship with someone, you would absolutely hate if they were super clingy.
A clingy boyfriend is just not something that you would ever be okay with. You would want to shake this person and ask them why they couldn’t live their own life and let you live yours, too. You don’t get couples who do everything together and never want to be out of each other’s sights. That just doesn’t make any sense to you. You would also hate it if your boyfriend made you feel guilty for not wanting to be with him all the time.
Leo signs are definitely not insecure. It’s basically the complete opposite. If this is you, then you’ve probably been told that you need to take your high self-esteem down a few notches and be a lot more humble. You laughed at that, didn’t you? Yeah, of course you did. You’re not going to love yourself any less.
And that’s exactly why the worst thing that could happen to you in a relationship is if your boyfriend publicly humiliated you. You honestly can’t imagine something that would be more terrible than that. Whether he cheated on you and everyone knew, or he dumped you and then started dating your sister or best friend, or if he was flirting at your birthday party wouldn’t matter. Those are all awful scenarios in your mind and something that you wouldn’t be able to forgive.
If you’re an Aries sign, then you’re kind of a tricky, difficult person. Sorry but it’s the honest truth. You can be in really bad moods sometimes, you can get really angry, and you always want things to be as interesting and exciting as possible.
As far as you’re concerned, the worst thing that could happen to you is if you became really bored in your relationship. You don’t ever want anything in your life to be boring and especially not your relationship. This would be a pretty terrible situation to be in since it’s not like it would be your BF’s fault. He could be a perfectly nice, good guy — he’s just not the right one for you. Of course, you would be super dramatic about the whole thing.
Air signs really value their freedom and independence. If you find yourself in a relationship, having your own life and doing your own thing is still super key for you, no matter how much you love this guy.
If you’re one of the three air signs, the thing that would really frustrate you would be if you fell so hard that you stopped being yourself. You would hate if you couldn’t even recognize yourself anymore because you were suddenly this guy’s girlfriend and that was your only identity. You always want to keep up your hobbies and interests and seeing your friends, and you never want to feel like you’ve lost yourself in the relationship. While losing yourself in love is the best thing ever for a lot of people, to you it’s the worst thing ever.
If you’re an Aquarius sign, then you’re the bossy one in the relationship, and you can’t even with the idea that your boyfriend would be. Okay, okay, so maybe you don’t want to think of yourself as bossy, but if the description fits…
You won’t stand for someone who tells you what to do or tries to take charge. You want to be in charge of the relationship. You also need a lot of freedom and to feel like you’re living your own life. You’re not ever going to be the kind of girl who wants to feel like she’s joined at the hip with her BF. You would absolutely hate that. If your boyfriend bossed you around all the time and was really controlling, you would consider that the worst thing ever, and he wouldn’t be your boyfriend for very long.
You like to keep the peace no matter what situation you’re in. There are a lot of good things about you, but being a peacekeeper is definitely one of your best qualities. It’s something that you should be proud of because a lot of people are too quick to argue or get mad at someone when it doesn’t even really matter.
If your boyfriend could do anything that could break your heart, it would be fighting with you all the time. If you found yourself in a super toxic relationship that involved 24/7 arguments and lots of pain and suffering, that would be the worst thing that you could possibly imagine. That would be too much for you and would really get under your skin.
If you’re a Gemini sign, then one major thing about you is that you hate being alone. This is even truer if you happen to be in a relationship because you assume that you’re going to spend all of your time with your boyfriend.
If your boyfriend told you that he needed more space and more alone time, you would be really upset. Yeah, you might be overreacting a bit (or a lot) because it’s not like he was trying to break up with you. He just needs alone time to recharge and chill out, which is what some people need. While you might be acting a bit clingy, the thing is that this is just the way that you are. You can’t change your personality and you want to have a partner who truly shares his life with you.
Earth signs are logical signs. If this is you, then you would never date just to date or hang out with someone who you didn’t see a future with. While others have no problem doing that and think that casually dating is super fun, it’s a nightmare for you.
You only want to date someone who you feel is serious about you and feels the same way about you that you do about them. If you were in a relationship and learned that your boyfriend didn’t want to marry you and start a family, that would be a total dealbreaker for you. You can’t think of anything worse. You would wonder why you were even together at all and would definitely walk away because it would be so upsetting.
As a Virgo sign, you might be called shy and quiet, but more accurately, you’re just a very smart, logical, cautious person. You don’t want to rush into things or do something without thinking about it carefully beforehand. Where your best friend might go on an impulsive trip and have a great adventure, you would consider that to be your worst nightmare.
If you were in a relationship, your boyfriend could break your heart by stealing money from you or using you in some other way. You wouldn’t be able to stand that and would definitely show him the door. You just always want people to behave in an intelligent, fair, and legit manner, and this would be horrible for you. You would be embarrassed by his behavior and would hate that since you don’t like being in the spotlight.
Capricorn signs love tradition and family. If you were engaged, you would want that to actually result in getting married. Yeah, what a crazy concept.
The most detrimental thing that could happen to you in a relationship? That would definitely be if your fiance called off your engagement… or if he did something so horrible that you had to do that yourself. It would be humiliating and you would hate having to tell your friends and family that things just didn’t work out. How could you ever show your face ever again?! Even though they would of course tell you that these things happen and that it wasn’t your fault, you would take it really personally and you would absolutely hate going through something like this.
Taurus signs are known for being stubborn, but they’re also very loyal people who absolutely don’t stand for cheating.
If this is you, then you already know that you’re a super loyal girlfriend. You would be the best girlfriend ever… except for the fact that you can be a bit too clingy. You also can feel like you own your partner, which is definitely a bit much and not the best way to be. If your boyfriend cheated on you, this would be something that you would find totally and completely impossible to move on from. Even if he begged for forgiveness, you just wouldn’t be able to do that. It would be the worst thing that you could possibly imagine happening to you. Being cheated on is basically your worst nightmare.