In 2018, you moved at a fast pace. You jumped into unknown situations. You spoke without thinking. You took the quickest route instead of the smartest route.
In 2019, recognize the importance of patience. Take baby steps. Allow yourself to do things right instead of doing things quickly.
In 2018, you doubted yourself. Instead of taking advantage of all of the opportunities presented to you, you stayed inside fo your comfort zone where it was safe.
In 2019, remember the importance of taking risks. You do not want to end up with the same regrets this time next year. You do not want to miss out on a great thing because you were scared.
In 2018, you allowed yourself to grow distant from the people who mean the most to you. You stopped texting as much. You stopped visiting as much. You let relationships fade away.
In 2019, rekindle the relationships that matter the most to you. Make more time for your loved ones. Make an effort for them.
In 2018, you did not ask for help when you needed it. You forced yourself to suffer because you wanted to handle your problems on your own. You did not want to bother anyone and made things so much harder on yourself.
In 2019, express your vulnerability. Do not hide behind a brave face. Admit when you are not okay.
In 2018, you did not get as much accomplished as you originally planned. You fell behind on certain projects. You gave up on certain dreams. You could not find the time or the motivation to complete all of your resolutions from last year.
In 2019, follow through on everything you start. Do not give up midway. Do not allow yourself to slack. Push yourself harder. Expect more from yourself.
In 2018, you gave someone toxic a piece of your heart. You accepted all of their apologies. You forgave them for all of their mistakes. You placed all of your faith into them and they betrayed you time after time.
In 2019, do not let toxic people get away with treating you terribly. Do not lower your standards for love. Do not keep anyone unhealthy in your world because you can do better.
In 2018, you were a little too nice. You allowed people to walk over you. You allowed them to take advantage of you. You never spoke up for yourself.
In 2019, place yourself first on your list of priorities. Allow yourself to be selfish. Allow yourself to take care of yourself before you start going out of your way to take care of everybody else.
In 2018, you beat yourself up over your mistakes. You dwelled on what went wrong. You spent most of your time hating yourself, wishing you were someone else.
In 2019, forgive yourself for your mistakes. Accept the past and vow to do better in the future. Look ahead, not behind.
In 2018, you were a homebody. You canceled plans. You overslept. You barely left your bedroom.
In 2019, get out of the house. Send the first text. Meet up with friends. Put more effort into your social life.
In 2018, you worked nonstop. You never gave yourself a moment of rest. You barely had the time to breathe.
In 2019, give yourself a break every once in a while. Stop being so hard on yourself. Stop pushing yourself to the brink of exhaustion.
In 2018, you spent most of your time stressing about tomorrow (or yesterday). You were always dreading something. You were always freaking out about something.
In 2019, appreciate the present moment. Stop worrying about something stupid you said yesterday or something stupid you might say tomorrow. Live in the now.
In 2018, you had a bad relationship with your body. You deleted photographs. You cursed at the scale. You struggled with eating right and exercising enough. You only had nasty things to say about yourself.
In 2019, learn to love yourself. Treat your body with respect. Admit you are beautiful. Stop being mean to yourself because you only deserve kindness.