We often get confused regarding what are the true gestures of love. A lot of people take advantage of such confusions and ruin our lives. It’s better to watch out for these 18 red flags in your relationship so that you can protect yourself before it’s too late.
A healthy relationship requires a balanced s*x drive or something which is same for both. If your partner has too high s*x drive or too low s*x drive, it implies you’re definitely not on the same page. Continuing with this results in getting hurt, depression, resentment, etc. because of the difference in expectations of s*x.
This is a scary sign if your partner tries to isolate you from your family and friends. It means they don’t love but they lust you and soon they will leave once they have taken whatever they needed, leaving you all alone.
According to research, if a married couple rolls their eyes at one another, there’s a chance that they will divorce soon enough. Rolling eyes show a lack of disrespect and it’s extremely unhealthy for a relationship.
Speaking ill of exes doesn’t justify their love for you. As satisfying as it sounds, the reality is they fell in love with them and stayed with them. No matter how badly their relationship ended, no person can be extremely bad. If your partner is saying such things, be assured they will say the same about you when they move on with someone else.
It might sound so sweet and romantic to be called perfect but wait! Reality Check! You’re not perfect. None of us are either. They are just flattering. This is obsession and they aren’t being romantic at all; they are just creepy.
How often have you been telling your partner to stop tickling? Hugs are warm but not always we like them. Isn’t it? If they continue crossing your physical boundaries in these playful ways, it’s a warning sign they don’t respect your body and would never care for your personal space.
A relationship takes time. It needs to be nurtured. If your partner is rushing it too quickly, it means you’re a rebound or he’s a narcissist. Run away!
If they love you truly, they wouldn’t be keeping secrets from you. Isn’t it?
If your partner treats their parents badly, then it’s a sign they will treat you badly too because it shows they don’t have any respect for their family members.
It’s better to have a clear idea about your partner’s past because if they cheated on their ex with you, they will do the same too.
Calling names isn’t cool; it’s a reflection of abusive behavior. It’s okay to have fights but if your partner calls you names during a fight, it’s better to leave the toxic relationship.
Having work ethics show how professional and disciplined they are. If they don’t know manners at workplace, they wouldn’t behave well elsewhere too. You’re taking the risk of a toxic relationship if you still plan on sticking by their side.
They themselves will never apologize when they are wrong while they try to put all the blame on you. This means they don’t have any respect for you, they don’t care about you at all. It’s a toxic relationship and you shouldn’t be hanging around with them.
Demanding your phone, your social media passwords isn’t a healthy possessiveness or a romantic gesture. They simply can’t trust you. Why would you want to be with someone who can’t even trust and respect you?
They were so cruel to you minutes ago and now they are so full of love for you!! How often do you get confused about this change in behaviors? Well, it’s time to take a decision and stop entertaining such excuses of true love.
It’s okay to be insecure but too much of insecurity is a red flag. If your partner demands a constant reassurance of your love for them, then it will never change no matter what you do you. It’s better to leave them with their own insecurities rather than spoiling your life.
Some people stay away from the social media but if nobody knows about your relationship, then probably your partner doesn’t want anyone to know they are committed.
It’s okay to crack a joke on your belly-fat but remember there’s a limit to everything. If your partner is always humiliating you regarding your body, that means they don’t have any respect for you at all. It’s a warning sign you need to come out of the relationship.